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Embracing Healing Together: How a Life Coach Can Hold Space for Your Darkest Moments
Healing is rarely a straight path. It often feels like walking through shadows where fear, doubt, and loneliness can overwhelm. Speaking up and asking for help can seem impossible when you believe no one will truly understand the weight of your emotions. But healing does not have to be a solitary journey. Community matters. Connection matters. And having someone who will hold space for your darkest moments can make all the difference. As a life coach, I understand how difficu

Heather Barnard
Nov 183 min read


Embracing Vulnerability as the First Step to Healing and Self-Discovery
Healing often begins with a simple yet powerful act: allowing yourself to be vulnerable. This step can feel daunting because it requires courage to face your true feelings, fears, and wounds. Yet, vulnerability is not a sign of weakness. It is the doorway to self-awareness, growth, and ultimately, healing. You do not need to expose everything at once or to others immediately. Starting with small, honest moments with yourself can set the foundation for profound change. A perso

Heather Barnard
Nov 183 min read


Exploring the Benefits of Somatic Therapy in Healing Trauma
Trauma leaves marks not only on the mind but also on the body. Traditional talk therapy often focuses on thoughts and emotions, but many people find that their trauma is stored physically, making it hard to fully heal. Somatic therapy offers a different approach by connecting the body and mind to release trauma and restore well-being. This post explores how somatic therapy works, its benefits, and practical examples of its use in trauma recovery. What Is Somatic Therapy? Soma

Heather Barnard
Nov 173 min read


Unlocking the Power of Validation Therapy in Healing PTSD
Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) affects millions worldwide, often leaving individuals feeling isolated, misunderstood, and trapped in their trauma. Traditional treatments can help, but many people still struggle to find relief. Validation therapy offers a powerful approach that focuses on acknowledging and accepting a person’s feelings and experiences. This method can create a safe space for healing and growth, especially for those coping with PTSD. A calm therapy room

Heather Barnard
Nov 173 min read


Empowering Domestic Violence Survivors with Support
When you find yourself standing at the crossroads of pain and hope, it can feel like the world is closing in. I want you to know, from the depths of my heart, that you are not alone. There is a path forward, and it is paved with compassion, understanding, and real, tangible support. Today, I want to walk with you through the journey of healing, sharing the power of domestic violence survivor resources that can help you reclaim your life and rediscover your strength. Finding

Heather Barnard
Nov 174 min read


Healing After Assault: How to Feel Safe, Seen, and Whole Again
Dear Survivor, I see you. I hear you. I know what it feels like to feel unsafe in your own skin. I know the silence, the fear, the shame, and the anger that can follow surviving sexual assault. I know how heavy it can feel to carry trauma alone. I know what it’s like to feel numb, to feel scared, and to not want to tell anyone. I’ve been there. It’s okay if you feel afraid, hesitant, or unsure where to start. Feeling numb, feeling scared, or wanting to stay silent doesn’t mea

Heather Barnard
Nov 132 min read


When We Hold Each Other, the World Heals
Community, to me, is sacred ground. It’s where we meet one another soul to soul — beyond judgment, beyond differences, beyond the noise of the world. In the circles I hold and the spaces I create, I hope to offer what we all ache for: a place to rest, to be seen, and to simply be . A space where we can lay down our armor and remember that we are not alone. I believe in non-judgmental spaces — where every voice matters and every story is welcome. Where silence is not emptines

Heather Barnard
Nov 112 min read


Finding Home: My Healing Journey Through Therapy and Community
“Sometimes healing isn’t about becoming someone new — it’s about remembering who you’ve always been.” There was a time when I thought healing meant fixing what was “wrong” with me. I believed that if I could just quiet the noise in my mind, I would finally feel whole. But what I’ve learned is that healing isn’t about fixing; it’s about remembering. It’s about learning to feel again, to soften into vulnerability, and to trust the wisdom of your own body and heart. This is the

Heather Barnard
Nov 74 min read


Somatic Healing: Returning to the Wisdom of Your Body and Heart
We spend so much of our lives in our heads — thinking, doing, striving — often disconnected from the quiet wisdom within us. Over time, that separation can leave us feeling anxious, tense, or emotionally flat. Somatic work invites you to slow down, breathe, and gently come home — to your body, your heart, and the stillness of your own inner being. What Is Somatic Work? Somatic work is a deeply intuitive, body-centered practice that helps you reconnect with yourself on every l

Heather Barnard
Nov 72 min read


What is Validation Therapy for Those with Trauma or Depression?
So often, people just want to be heard — not fixed, not judged, not told to “look on the bright side.” When we’re struggling with trauma or depression, the world can feel heavy, and our emotions can be hard to express. That’s where Validation Therapy offers something powerful and deeply human: the gift of being seen, accepted, and understood. What Is Validation Therapy? Validation Therapy is a compassionate, person-centered approach rooted in empathy and emotional connection.

Heather Barnard
Nov 52 min read


How to Select the Right Life Coach for You: A Step-by-Step Guide
Selecting a Life Coach can be a task. Make it easier to find the best one for you with these steps.

Heather Barnard
Nov 35 min read


Neuroception: The Hidden Key to Mental Health
Have you ever found yourself suddenly anxious for no clear reason — your heart racing, your mind replaying thoughts over and over again, your stomach churning all the while all around you seems “normal”? Perhaps you are a college student in class or in a staff meeting at work. You might find yourself thinking, “I’m having a panic attack!” or questioning, “Could this be a heart attack?” Maybe you try to brush it off, telling yourself it’s just stress or anxiety. The truth is

Heather Barnard
Oct 224 min read


7 Tools to Connect with Your Inner Child
Have you heard the "buzz" about people working with their inner child to heal past trauma? When I search for "inner child work" on Google under news, several articles come up. Women’s Health published “Inner child work can help you heal past emotional wounds and find happiness in the present” - April 2024 Time Magazine published “Why is Everyone Working on Their Inner Child” - April 2023 Verywell Mind published “Reparenting in Therapy” - November 2023 You can find results for

Heather Barnard
Nov 30, 20249 min read


A New Way to Define Courage
Rethinking Courage: What It Really Means to Be Brave Let’s talk about courage. We’ve all heard what it’s *supposed* to look like — running into burning buildings, standing up to danger, or facing impossible odds without flinching. But what if courage isn’t just about those big, dramatic moments? What if it’s about *you* — the quiet, everyday kind of courage that doesn’t make headlines but still changes everything? This blog is about rethinking what courage means, and maybe he

Heather Barnard
Jan 7, 20244 min read


Depression -- Can we truly overcome it? I say YES!
What you perceive as sadness, I call a lack of coping mechanisms and the inability to smile. What you call distance, I call a fear of being seen. What you call drama and attention-seeking, I call desperation for help. What you see as struggling with life, I see someone trapped in a mind that sees no end to their suffering. Depression, a word we’ve all come to hear more frequently, holds a deeper meaning for those who struggle with it than for those who “live” on the outside.

Heather Barnard
Nov 14, 20216 min read


Trauma and the Human Experience - There IS Hope
Trauma has a way of disguising hope as being possible. I once felt that way and now, I can say, there is hope! Find it today!

Heather Barnard
Oct 4, 20217 min read


Things to Consider When Selecting a Therapist
Finding the Right Therapist for You Choosing to attend therapy is an incredibly courageous step—congratulations on making that decision. Once you’ve committed to the process, one of the most important factors in achieving success is selecting a therapist who is the right fit for you. Not every therapist will align with your individual needs, personality, or goals. Likewise, every therapist brings their own personality, professional background, and therapeutic style. What is e
Heather Rose
Sep 9, 20214 min read
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